Sometimes our answers to things we are pondering come as a result of living the questions themselves.  A while ago, I wrestled with the unfairness of a situation for a few weeks, and then suddenly had an epiphany!  I just realized there was a new way to look at the situation.  As I did, the relief was wonderful, my answer became clear, and I was able to move forward with greater understanding.  When we take a situation one day at a time, no matter how great or small, we will eventually see the  answer.  Maybe it will be through the eyes and wisdom of another, or just in our own time and patience of waiting.  The virtue of patience is sterling.